Showing posts with label empowering women. Show all posts
Showing posts with label empowering women. Show all posts

Wednesday, 21 May 2014

Kickarse Women: Sia Furler

Beyoncé Would Be Proud is all about Female Empowerment. Every week we will be focusing on a woman, celebrity, local or personal hero, write about their strengths and why they inspire us.


Performing her latest single on the Ellen Show, Sia reminded us why we love her.



Sia, who no longer chooses to show her face to the camera when she performs, explains she is reluctant of the limelight as a means of protecting her mental health, which has suffered in previous years. She shares with Billboard magazine:


“All I wanted to do was write music for pop stars. For one reason or another it never happened for me. Then I got seriously addicted to Vicodin and Oxycodone, and I was always a drinker but I didn’t know I was an alcoholic. I was really unhappy being an artist and I was getting sicker and sicker” – Sia Furler, Billboard Magazine


Sia decided to take back control of her own destiny. Although she retired from music and removed herself from celebrity culture, Sia continued writing music for artists such as Rihanna, Beyoncé, Britney Spears, etc. However for someone like Sia, who has so much passion, innovation and talent for their craft, it is hard to completely remove them from what they love most.

Sia's cover photo for Billboard Magazine

You can hear this real passion resonate through Sia's voice when listening to her music. She is a true, genuine artist who uses her music as a vehicle of creative expression and self-release. From her sombre album ‘Colour the Small One’ expressing the loss of her late partner, Dan. To the more popular, upbeat ‘We Are Born’. You can tell Sia's passion for her craft through visuals she creates like her album cover art and music videos such as Buttons, The Girl You Lost to Cocaine  and You’ve Changed (below). It is hard not being influenced by Sia’s infectious, vibrant personality. The girl is quirky, colourful and celebrates it! What more is there to love?



My friend and I were lucky enough to have the privilege of experiencing one of Sia’s live concerts in 2011 before announcing her retirement. The whole thing was such a memorable experience! From the moment she stepped on stage painted head to toe in black with a pink tutu and started interacting with the audience, asking if there was a ‘Rebecca’ in the audience because Sia’s mum requested she say hello. She also encouraged the audience to yell random words at her so she could personably make up a song on the spot for the audience.

Sia performing in concert 2011

She even explained between songs that she gets very energised and distracted by the audience when performing, as all she wants to do is interact with audience members. She further explained she gets so distracted that she sometimes forgets the lyrics to her own songs, which actually happened! She got so distracted that she apologised and had to hum the rest of lyrics until she got to the chorus. Since Sia explained herself with such sincerity before the blunder, it was hard to find this act anything but endearing.

Sia's costumer change with fairy wings that blew out bubbles


Sia is definitely a rare form of artist. Although there may be artists similar to her, there are none like her. She is truly unique, exceptionally innovative and a game changer. I am so happy that after experiencing darkness, she has found a way to reconnect with her craft, while removing herself from celebrity culture and using things like a paper bag to hide her identity for the sake of her mental health. I honestly hope Sia successfully achieves her anti-fame manifesto as she intends.

Promo photo for Sia's upcoming album


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Monday, 19 May 2014

Why 'Beyoncé Would Be Proud'

I’d like to let you all on a little secret … I do not personally know Beyoncé.

I would like to let you know though that I am a city girl from Melbourne with real problems like ‘if I should wash my hair tonight or save it for after soccer practice tomorrow’. These are the real things I worry about.

Queen Bey & I outside Coco Bongo in Mexico

I do not know what Beyoncé is proud of, but based on my perception of what she embodies, represents and brings to public knowledge, I believe Beyoncé would be proud of the ambitious woman I am. I have strength, act on my ambitions and follow through with my passions such as writing this blog and travelling independently. I also feel strongly about women’s rights and often feel offended when men treat women secondary, put them down, dismiss or devalue their worth. I also do not like the way  traditional masculinity negatively impacts on female relations by encouraging them to  compete and act against each other through bitchiness and slut shaming.


Before travelling solo through most of Latin America, I used to suffer much self-doubt. Now I feel self-assured, confident and happy as a person, which is something no one can take away from me. My experiences have shaped the person I am today and am thankful for that. Over the years I have built a newfound appreciation for myself that enables me to speak my mind if I feel mistreated or devalued, which is something I could not do before as I lacked self-confidence and self-appreciation. However I know my worth now, am happy and unapologetic for that. I also know I can be an over-sharer and believe some of the funniest stories are the ones that should never  been told, which I am also impenitent for.

Given how much Beyoncé values her privacy, I am doubtful she would be too impressed with my love for poop stories and immature reactions (i.e. bursting out in laughter) when someone farts in public. We’re all human at the end of the day though. We should embrace our imperfections and celebrate our craziness.


While I strongly admire Beyoncé, her womanly prowess; the documentaries I have watched about her music career depict her to be a very strong-willed, determined and serious woman who pays great attention to the finest details. She does not leave much to chance and likes to be in complete control of her situation. As soon as she loses the slightest bit of control of her situation, she is not a happy Beyoncé.


I consider Beyoncé to be an intellectual, powerfully influential, empowering woman who kicks all arses and dominates the music industry. However I personally like leaving things to chance and going with the flow. I do not believe in making plans, as I know they never work out as intended. I also enjoy having freedom, flexibility and consider myself to be a care free spirit who doesn’t take life seriously and loves sharing a laugh amongst new and old friends.

Life is about having fun and living it to the fullest without regrets. It is about doing more of what makes you happy. For me that is writing, which I know is something Beyoncé would be proud of.